4 Former Celeb Couples That Have Co-Parenting Down To A Science
No one plans to get divorced. But sometimes, things just don't work out. It isn't easy to handle a marriage falling apart, and it's even harder when kids are in the mix. Now, imagine being a celebrity who has to go through a divorce in the public eye. It must be tough! But there are certain celebrities who have handled their divorce and co-parenting their children with grace. In fact, some former celebrity couples are total divorce goals (and somehow made that a thing).
From Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin's usage of radical accountability to Ben Affleck speaking highly of his former partner, Jennifer Garner, there's definitely a thing or two we can learn from the following divorced celebrities. Even Kim Kardashian, who underwent a total transformation after her divorce from Kanye West, has now managed to co-parent successfully. So, what are their keys to successful co-parenting? Read on to find out.
Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillippe
Actors Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillippe seem to have co-parenting down to a science. An insider told Us Weekly in 2021 that their co-parenting relationship has "never been better." The source also praised Phillippe, saying, "Ryan has been an awesome parent ... and everything pretty much stops for him when his kids need him." The former couple often present a united front at events for their children, such as their son Deacon's graduation from the NYU Tisch School of the Arts in 2026.
Phillippe also spoke about his co-parenting relationship with Witherspoon in an interview with Fox News Digital. He said, "We never really had a hard time of it. We were always both so devoted, even once we were no longer together." He also goes on to say that the two don't speak negatively of each other and still maintain a friendship. They still call each other about various things. It seems like we can all take a page out of their book.
Kim Kardashian and Kanye West
Kim Kardashian was never the same after her divorce from Ye (formerly Kanye West). And she is the realest when it comes to what it's like to co-parent. She knows it's not perfect. In fact, in an October 2025 episode of the "Call Her Daddy" podcast (via USA Today), she said co-parenting with Ye is "not easy." Kardashian's relationship with her former partner is different from other celebrities because Ye has been known to have mental health challenges. So, that means she does have to do what is best for her kids, depending on the status of Ye's mental health.
Kardashian said,"I welcome a great, healthy relationship with [the] kids and their dad. I push for that all the time, but I also protect them when it's time for that. And it goes in waves and phases, and it's a lot of work." In December 2025, TMZ revealed that Kardashian and Ye spent the holidays as a family with their kids, hinting that their co-parenting relationship has evolved. Ye had reportedly been working on himself, including reflecting on his controversial behavior.
Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin
Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin are committed to their two children. Even after their divorce or "conscious uncoupling" in 2014, the two have maintained a tight-knit unit. They have committed to putting their children first, which Paltrow told Drew Barrymore is "harder than it looks." Paltrow and Martin have also mastered blending their families, with Paltrow even inviting Martin and their children on her honeymoon when she married Brad Falchuk in 2018.
Paltrow spoke to Drew Barrymore about radical accountability, "taking responsibility for your half...and how it's presenting in the relationship." She also speaks highly of Martin, saying that just because their marriage is over, it doesn't mean you stop loving certain things about the person you once loved. She spoke to People about how Martin has a "child-like spirit" and a "real sweetness" about him. It's rare for exes to speak positively about each other, so this is nice to see.
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner
Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner got divorced in 2018, but they have a strong co-parenting relationship. Part of that may be due to their shared values and outlook. Affleck has revealed that he doesn't want to push his kids into acting. And Garner has also realized that the kids have a choice regarding what they want to do. She told Marie Claire, "Parenting now has shifted. It's more about parenting with a button on my mouth.... You have to let them grow up and make their choices."
Affleck shared similar sentiments as Garner, telling E! News that he doesn't pressure their kids. "We really want to give them room to figure out what they want to do," he shared. The former couple also speaks highly of each other. In an interview with Access Hollywood, Affleck gushed about his daughter, and also complimented Jennifer Garner, saying she's "spectacular" and that he is lucky to have a great partner. The two also present a united front, attending their kids' activities together and going on family vacations.