5 Books About Close-Knit Mother Daughter Bonds For A Feel Good Read
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Storytelling thrives on conflict between characters, and any woman can tell you that there are few richer sources of turmoil than mothers. As a result, books about the complex relationship between mothers and daughters are some of the most memorable in the literary canon. More so than any romance, they're filled with yearning, loss, and the pain of love never taking exactly the form you want. After all, you only get one mother.
Sometimes, though, you just don't want all that drama. Maybe your relationship with your mother is fraught enough that you don't need to be reminded of it in your downtime. Or maybe it's great, and you'd relate better to a story of lighthearted mother-daughter adventures after a long day of your own. Rest assured that, among all the horror stories of being or having a mother, the publishing world has offerings for you as well.
Tom Lake by Ann Patchett
Whether your experience of quarantining with your family was more "Little House on the Prairie" or "Lord of the Flies," you'll appreciate Ann Patchett's tale of a family using lockdown as an opportunity to deepen their connection. As Lara's three daughters prepare to wait out the pandemic on the family cherry orchard, they've got all but one thing on their minds: their mother's past, when she shared a stage (and a romance) with a now-famous actor. What they learn puts their entire family and relationships in a whole new context.
"Tom Lake" topped a countless amount of 2023 "best of" lists, and for good reason. Patchett tells her story of love, family, and choice with such tenderness that you'd have to be part of "The Brady Bunch" not to envy its characters' dynamics at least a little bit. Even though the information that Lara's daughters learn about their mother changes what they thought they knew, it never affects how much they love her. If you've ever wanted to know more about your own mother (and who doesn't?), "Tom Lake" might just give you the inspiration you need to ask.
Where'd You Go, Bernadette by Maria Semple
If you haven't already caught the 2019 Richard Linklater adaptation starring Cate Blanchett, Maria Semple's "Where'd You Go, Bernadette" will take you on a wild ride. It chronicles the series of events, from Russian mafia schemes to feuds with neighbors, that convinces its title character — a once-successful architect and now agoraphobic — that her only option is to flee her home mid-intervention. Her 15-year-old daughter, Bee, soon decides that it's up to her to dig through her mother's past in order to track her down in a journey that takes readers from Seattle to Antarctica and back again.
Even when Bernadette and Bee's lives become complicated, their relationship never is. Neither the chaos their family is plunged into nor the literal thousands of miles separating them can damage their devotion to each other. When you're done with "Where'd You Go, Bernadette," try Semple's latest release "Go Gentle," which is climbing book club and best seller lists and also features a tight mother-daughter pair.
One Italian Summer by Rebecca Serle
At first glance, Rebecca Serle's "One Italian Summer" doesn't seem to be much of a heartwarming maternal romp. After all, at the beginning of the book, Katy's mother is dead. But she doesn't stay that way.
No, this isn't a ghost story. It's about Katy's trip to the Italian village where her mother once spent a summer as a young woman, which they'd planned to take together before her death. Katy might have hoped to find her mother there in a spiritual sense, but she didn't count on actually finding her mother, once again inhabiting the body of the young woman she was when she first visited Positano.
Anyone who likes a little magic in their beach reads or knows just how short time can be will treasure "One Italian Summer." Katy gets exactly what she wants, which is one last season with her mother, and something she never even realized: the knowledge that her mother was once exactly as clueless as she is. The gorgeous Italian scenery doesn't hurt, either.
Mothers and Daughters by Erica James
Erica James' latest summery story should be called "Mothers, Daughters, and Secrets," because that's what Naomi and her daughters are keeping from each other in their ancestral home by the sea that drives this drama about loss, strength, and understanding. It's not that Martha and Willow aren't close to their mother, or even each other, despite the disparities in their personalities and approaches to life. It's just that they would all prefer to preserve the ideas they've formed of each other (and the rest of their family).
Of course, illusions always fade in time. "Mothers and Daughters" showcases the sisters as they grapple with the reveal of their mother's new companion and the truth about their late father, gaining a new perspective of their own relationships. Though they couldn't be more different, they find that they have more in common with each other — and even their beloved mother — than they ever thought possible.
Then Again by Diane Keaton
Feel-good stories don't have to be fictional. Of course, most memoirs of mother-daughter relationships fall squarely under the "complicated" category, since it's hard to write about how much your mom rules without wandering into college essay territory. That's not the case with "Then Again" by Diane Keaton, though. It's a celebration of the legendary actor's mother, Dorothy Hall, and how their connection affected every aspect of both of their remarkable lives.
It turns out Hall hardly needed her daughter to tell her story. Before her death in 2008, she wrote it all on her own, over the course of 85 journals that Keaton pored over to discover the truth about her family and herself. The result is a tale of two women, their parallel struggles, and the boundless love they had for each other. You know Diane Keaton as a fashion icon, Oscar winner, and all-around renaissance woman. Now, get to know her as a daughter.
Methodology
We searched Goodreads, Reddit, and the greater internet for recommendations of books about mothers and daughters. From there, we identified titles with mother and daughter characters whose relationships are warm and strong, had a primary focus on those bonds, and brought those heartwarming narratives to the forefront. To ensure quality, we included only titles with at least 1,000 reviews and an average review score of at least 3.5 on both Amazon and Goodreads.