The Way Every Zodiac Sign Sabotages Her Relationship Without Even Trying To

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You'll never find your star-crossed lover if you keep doing this one thing.

When it comes to your zodiac sign, the odds are that you're well aware of all the inherent traits that make you awesome!

Whether it's your deep passion, your sense of humor, or your sense of adventure, there are things about each and every sign that can come across as amazing to a potential mate.

On the flip side though, we all also have tendencies that can creep in accidentally and cause us to push our partners away without even realizing it.

Don't let it happen to you! Here are a list of things that each zodiac sign should be aware of in order to keep them from coming in between you and a great relationship.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

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If you’re an Aries, then you probably already know that passion, energy, and spontaneity are what your sign is famous for!

While these can obviously be traits that makes you a great lover, be careful not to let them run wild and translate into things like moodiness, bossiness, or self-centeredness.

Your sign tends to get so into everything you do that you can also be really hard on yourself when things don’t go your way. If you find yourself unable to resist going there, at least be careful not to shut down around those who care about you.

Taurus (April 20-May 20)

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When it comes to commitment and loyalty, a potential mate need look no further than you!

If a Taurus tells you they’re going to do something, consider it done. This can be awesome on one hand but can come across as extreme stubbornness and inflexibility on the other if you and your lover are not on the same page.

While you tend to enjoy the luxuries of life, careful not to get so stuck in your ways that you aren’t up for a little spontaneity and adventure every now and then. This can be a deal breaker if your partner is more of a free spirit.

Gemini (May 21-June 20)

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Chances are that anyone who has ever had the pleasure of dating you has never had to worry about being bored!

Those born under the sign of Gemini love to chat, learn, and experience life on the fly.

While this can be a lot of fun at its best, at its worst it can translate into being a bit of a conversation hog, accidentally coming across as intellectually condescending, and not being the most reliable person on the planet.

The key here is simply adding a reminder to be consistently considerate to the list of many things already on your ever churning mind

Cancer (June 21-July 22)

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If your partner is out for a nurturer, they’ve come to the right place!

Cancers can be among the world’s sweetest, most emotionally understanding people, and tend to make notoriously excellent cuddlers and moms.

On the flip sign, when you guys are in a bad mood, if you’re not careful, it can suck you down into a pit of despair that takes moodiness to a whole new level.

Be careful not to shut down when this happens, as you may have a tendency to have a hard time opening up, and letting your partner know what’s going on.

Leo (July 23-August 22)

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Walk into any party around and you’ll probably find a Leo at the center of it!

You guys tend to be natural born entertainers, incredibly dynamic, and a whole lot of fun!

On the flip side, you tend to have a hard time owning up to your own weaknesses and can come across as a bit of a narcissist if you’re not careful.

Make sure you spread the confidence around a little and make your partner feel as great about themselves as you do.

Virgo (August 23-September 22)

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When it comes to a grounded, reliable, and creative partner, you’re the woman for the job!

While you tend to be successful at whatever you set out to do, be aware that you quite possibly expect the same perfection from everyone in your life.

This can turn into a tendency to get really controlling really quickly if you’re not careful!

Be sure to always pick your battles and let the little things go, lest you turn into grade A nagger.

Libra (September 23-October 22)

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Chances are that your partners tend to fall for you hard, as you tend to be incredibly sweet, romantic, and sociable.

On the flip side, it may come as no surprise that you tend to be a bit of a flirt and may make your partner jealous without realizing it.

You also may be a tad indecisive and can be such a giver that you occasionally forget to take care of yourself.

In the long run this inevitably tends to get overwhelming for you, which as a hater of conflict, you may respond to by ghosting rather than confronting the situation head on.

Scorpio (October 23-November 21)

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Famous for your passion, those born under your sign tend to form incredibly deep, intense relationships.

This can be a great thing as long as your partner is on board but can come across as a little overwhelming if you try to move things ahead too quickly.

You may also have a tendency towards jealousy that can come across as possessiveness.

Make sure you give you partner a little space and listen to their ideas, as you also love doing things your own way.

Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)

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A relationship with you is likely packed with so much fun and humor that your partner sees it as one big adventure!

While you love learning new things and constantly exploring, careful not to come across as tactless or a know-it-all.

You also may want to be upfront if commitment isn’t your strong point, as Sagittarians tend to give off mixed signals and can make it really hard to figure out what it is exactly that they are feeling.

Capricorn (December 22-January 19)

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If your partner is looking for a go-getter who is all about achieving any goal they set out to pursue, a Capricorn woman is the lady for them.

While you tend to be very strong willed and independent, be aware that at times these positive traits can go array and may make you come across as a bit emotionally detached and incredibly stubborn.

Though you tend to come up with great, strong ideas, be careful that you don’t discount your partners’ or accidentally become a control freak.

Aquarius (January 20-February 18)

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If your partner loves new ideas and interesting adventures, they are bound to fall for you hard and fast!

You guys are the dreamers of the zodiac and want to experience all the unique experiences life has to offer.

On the downside, you can be such a dreamer that if you’re not careful, you may get a little stuck in your head from time to time, making it difficult to really connect with you emotionally.

Make an effort to be in the present when you’re with your partner and strive to maintain a little dependability despite your love of shaking things up.

Pisces (February 19-March 20)

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Pisces are some of the sweetest, funniest partners anyone could ask for and tend to be amazing listeners.

When it comes to emotions, you tend to feel things incredibly deeply which can be an amazing trait, as long as you keep it in check.

Be aware that it can be a little easier to hurt your feelings or make you angry than your partner may be used to.

When this happens, resist the urge to clam up or take things too personally and make sure to always let your lover know what’s going on instead of opting for the silent treatment.