The Do's and Don'ts of Giving a Great Blow Job

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Give Your Husband the Head He Deserves by Following These Blow Job Tips

Every woman secretly wants to be better at giving blow jobs.

We'd never dare admit that to anyone in our lives, not even our moms, but it's true. We want to suck dick like a porn star, excuse the crass language.

There's nothing more satisfying than watching your partner wriggle with pleasure as you go down on him.

If you're not already there, your head skills can achieve that gold star level. All you have to do is follow the do's and don'ts of giving a great blow job below!

Do Get Sloppy

The only thing men love more than a blow job is a sloppy blow job, trust us. They like it when things get messy, so don't be afraid of slobbering all over their schlong. Not only will this turn them on, it'll help you give better head. No one like's a dry blow job. It's incredibly uncomfortable for both parties, so get him soaking wet before you even think about sucking on his phallic member.

Don't Do It With Great Haste

We can't emphasize this enough: Take your time. This isn't a race to get him to finish. Sure, that might be the goal, but don't attempt to suck him dry within 30 seconds. No one wants that, especially not your husband. Slow things down, then speed them back up, but don't try to get it over with as quickly as possible. If that's what's happening, you might as well just not give head. Which is also always an option, so keep that in the back of your mind (er, throat?).

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Do Use Your Hands

A blow job is obviously different from a hand job in that one requires you to put a penis in your mouth. Wow, didn't that scientific phrasing just turn you on? No? Okay, well moving on. Yes, you're meant to be blowing your husband's member, but you should also use your hands. Use them to rub up and down the shaft while you suck on the tip or fondle the balls if you can deep throat. Make sure they're doing something that'll help your husband reach climax and not just laying around. Unless you're tied up, then let them be.

Don't Use Your Teeth

While you should use your hands to your advantage, be sure you don't use your teeth when giving a blow job. His dong isn't a hot dog, okay? It could potentially damage your husband's penis and probably won't feel too great for you either. Treat sucking dick the same way you would licking a popsicle or lollipop. We bet you don't use your teeth sucking on those, so mimic that when giving head.

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Do Make Yourself Comfortable

While this moment is all about pleasing your husband, you have to make sure you're comfortable, as well. Find a position that works for you and even one you can be in for quite some time. You do want this moment to last, don't you? If you're in one position that isn't working, ask to switch things up. Chances are your husband will always go for it. This brings us to our next point.

Don't Get Stuck in a Routine

Don't keep doing the same thing over and over and over again. Change up your normal blow job routine every so often to discover what else works for you and your husband. If you keep up with the same routine, you might never discover that you can also get yourself off while giving him head. So experiment and try new positions!

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