The Best Vibrators for Women, Based on Their Age

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The Best Vibrators for Women of Any Age, According to an Expert

No matter your age or sexual experience, deciding on the right vibrator for you can be tough.

With so many different options to choose from, you can't try them all—although, it would be amazing if that were the case. Anyway, if you can't test them out yourself before buying, you probably turn to customer reviews.

We're going to do you one better. We reached out to a sex toy expert, Caroyln Eagle at Betty's Toy Box, to get her breakdown of the best vibrators for women in their 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond.

Shop her expert recommendations below!

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Best Vibrators for Women in Their 20s

Your 20s is all about experimenting and discovering what you like. It's best to start with toys that are more classic in shape and style.

"These are the discovery years for sexuality for many of us," Carolyn says. "We're buying our first sex toys and figuring out what works for our bodies. These two toys are classic shapes for a reason and are great starting points when you’re looking to buy a beginner toy."

Below are the vibrators she recommends for women in their 20s:

1. Exposed Nocturnal Rechargeable Lipstick Vibrator by Blush Novelties

"Practically every person with a clitoris starts out with a bullet vibrator," Carolyn notes. They’re small, discreet, usually pretty silent, and great for hiding from parents or roommates. This is a great one because it’s rechargeable and waterproof, but also great quality, really quiet, and affordable."

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2. Happy Rabbit Classic G-Spot Vibrator by Lovehoney

"If you’re craving more than a bullet can give, it’s a great idea to reach for a rabbit," Carolyn says. "I love this classic design without too many bells and whistles, so you get great body-safe materials, and a rechargeable toy that is also waterproof. More importantly, it gives you that double stimulation that so many of us crave and it's pretty quiet for all the power it delivers."

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The Best Vibrators for Women in Their 30s

When you're in your 30s, you're hellbent on discovering what you want and how to get it—the same goes with your sex toys.

"This is the decade where we know more about what we want sexually and are finding ways to get it, with or without a partner," Carolyn says.

Below are the vibrators she recommends for women in their 30s:

1. We-Vibe Touch Waterproof Silicone Vibrator

"This is a powerful clitoral vibrator with an amazing scoop shape for maximum stimulation," she mentions. "It's very quiet, body safe, and waterproof, but it’s also small enough that you can use it with a partner, between your bodies. A great multi-purpose vibe for your multitasking 30s."

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2. Fun Factory Stronic Real Realistic Pulsator Thrusting Dildo

"This vibrator makes no apologies," Carolyn says. "It has a powerful motor and a thrusting function that gives you that amazing feeling of penetration whenever, however, and for as long as you like."

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The Best Vibrators for Women in Their 40s

You may have a lot on your plate in your 40s, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't make time to pleasure yourself.

"This is probably the busiest decade in women’s lives," Carolyn states. "For many of us, our sex lives can take a nosedive. These two toys were chosen specifically to allow you to keep your sex life alive amidst all your responsibilities."

Below are the vibrators she recommends for women in their 40s:

1. Zumio X Powerful Oscillating Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator

"The concept for this vibrator was developed by a busy working mother who wanted a silent vibrator that could deliver quick, intense orgasms," Carolyn mentions. "The Zumio delivers just that. Its pinpoint head will send your clitoris into throes of ecstasy and the loudest noise in the room will be your moans."

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2. Eva II Hands-Free Silicone Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator by Dame

"Developed by women for women, this wearable wonder fits snugly and comfortably under your labia for hands-free stimulation," she says. "It's wonderful for women who take longer to orgasm than their partners or who can’t normally reach orgasm during penetration (which is most of us), but don’t underestimate how fun it is to have your hands completely free when you’re self-pleasuring either."

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The Best Vibrators for Women in Their 50s

Sex doesn't stop once you hit a certain age, but menopause can change what you like.

"As we age, it is so important to take care of our sexual health as well as our mental and physical health," Carolyn says. "As perimenopause and menopause make changes in our bodies, these are great toys to keep exploring what gives us pleasure."

Below are the vibrators she recommends for women in their 50s:

1. Magic Wand Unplugged Rechargeable Vibrator

"If you have never owned a Magic Wand by your 50s, now is the time," Carolyn proclaims. "Many women are more sexually active in their 50s than any other time and this baby delivers powerhouse stimulation. There are a number of accessories available that can turn this classic into the most powerful insertable vibrator you have ever experienced as well."

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2. Ina Wave Dual Vibrator by LELO

"This is the ultimate rabbit-style vibrator with a G-spot curved arm that waves up and down to give you amazing stimulation," Carolyn notes. "It's wonderful for women who have sexual experience, who know their bodies, and want to explore blended and G-spot orgasms."

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The Best Vibrators for Women in Their 60s and 70s

You can stay sexually active for as long as you want, but be sure to do it with some particular toys.

"Keeping sexually active is important as we age, but sex toys aren’t always easy to navigate with mobility or eyesight issues," Carolyn states. "These toys are specifically chosen for their accessibility and ease of use."

Below are the vibrators she recommends for women in their 60s and 70s:

1. Womanizer Premium Pleasure Air Clitoral Stimulator

"Womanizer uses Pleasure Air Technology for some very intense direct clitoral stimulation," she says. "The wonderful upside to this design is the long handle, which makes it easier to place and to keep in position. It also has a wide range of intensities making it perfect for anybody who has decreased sensation."

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2. Sola Sync 10-Function Remote Control Rechargeable Wand Vibrator

"This wand is long and light, with a smaller than average head, making it ideal for anybody with limited mobility," Carolyn notes. "It also has an easy-to-use remote control, so you don’t need to fumble around with buttons after you have the toy in place, making it tops in my books for accessibility, plus is has plenty of power to boot."

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3. Tantus Rumble Powerful Rechargeable Vibrator

"This vibrator is incredibly light and even has indents on the handle for a firm grip and easy handling," she says. "The shape of the head means it can stimulate a broad area and it can also come off for easy cleaning. You can even buy a number of attachments to the head, so you can personalize its sensations."

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