Quiz: Which Of The 5 Love Languages Do You Use?

Everyone has one primary love language.

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 Feb 08, 2019
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Question: 1/33Pick Your Answer!

Which holiday do you love to celebrate?
Valentine's Day
New Year's Eve

Question: 2/33Pick Your Answer!

Your ideal date would be something like...
Coffee and ice cream date
A home cooked dinner
Jet setting to Vegas
Dinner and a movie
Horseback riding

Question: 3/33Pick Your Answer!

Your ideal vacation would be something like...
A luxurious spa and resort
New York City
A bed and breakfast in the mountains
A "stay-cation" with breakfast in bed

Question: 4/33Pick Your Answer!

You'd likely meet your partner at...
A bar
A café
The gym

Question: 5/33Pick Your Answer!

How do you show someone you care?
Buy them something you know they’ve had their eye on.
Give them an extra long back rub after work.
Take them out for a nice meal with you.
Write a sweet note to express your gratitude.
Light a few candles and draw a relaxing bath for them.

Question: 6/33Pick Your Answer!

In high school, you were most likely voted...
Most Athletic
Class Sweetheart
Most Charitable
Drama Queen
Future President

Question: 7/33Pick Your Answer!

How family oriented are you, on a scale of 1-10 (1 being not at all)?

Question: 8/33Pick Your Answer!

How would you feel if your partner didn't get you flowers on Valentine's Day?
Shrug it off, but sulk
End the relationship
Happy they didn't succumb to marketing pressure
Tell them you’re disappointed
Don't even notice

Question: 9/33Pick Your Answer!

What do you like to do for your partner?
Do their part of chores
Give them a massage
Watch movies with them
Order dinner
Write them a love letter

Question: 10/33Pick Your Answer!

What would you like most for your partner to do for you after a long day at work?
Have dinner ready
Ask you about your day
Hand you their credit card and tell you to buy something
Give you a shoulder massage
Go for a walk with you

Question: 11/33Pick Your Answer!

When you watch TV, you:
Cuddle together under blankets
Like to be completely alone
Sit on your own recliner
Sit on the opposite end of the couch from your partner
Cuddle for awhile but then lay separately

Question: 12/33Pick Your Answer!

After a big argument, what's the best way your partner could apologize?
Lots of hugs and kisses
Taking you on a romantic date
Sending a sweet text
Doing your dishes and laundry
Buying you flowers

Question: 13/33Pick Your Answer!

How many times per week does your partner surprise you?
Almost never
Three - four times

Question: 14/33Pick Your Answer!

Your best friend is moving. You would help by...
You're too busy to help. Maybe next time.
Bringing over some takeout
Joining to pack up their stuff
Calling and chatting with them while they're packing
Paying for the moving truck

Question: 15/33Pick Your Answer!

If you were granted one wish, it would be for a ...
Long and healthy life
Bigger house
Life coach
Personal trainer
Full-time chef

Question: 16/33Pick Your Answer!

Which would you most likely do for someone you care about?
Clean their home.
Give them a hug.
Have a bouquet of flowers delivered.
Stop in and surprise them with a visit.
Send a loving text to let them.

Question: 17/33Pick Your Answer!

What would you want your partner to get you for your birthday?
A class you can take together
Diamond earrings
A couples' massage
A home made cake
A hand-written love note

Question: 18/33Pick Your Answer!

Your holiday plans usually look like...
Volunteering at a soup kitchen
A fancy dinner out with your friends and family
Cuddling on the couch after a homemade dinner
Hosting a party for your friends and family
Going skiing in the mountains

Question: 19/33Pick Your Answer!

What is the ideal profession you would want your partner to have?
Business Owner

Question: 20/33Pick Your Answer!

You'd love to spend the evening...
Ordering takeout and catching up
Going on a bike ride
Dinner and drinks somewhere romantic
Sitting by the fire having a heart-to-heart
Watching Netflix while cuddling on the couch

Question: 21/33Pick Your Answer!

The thing you love the most about your partner is their ___.

Question: 22/33Pick Your Answer!

How many times a day do you wish your partner said, "I love you"?
Almost never
Several times
A couple times

Question: 23/33Pick Your Answer!

How much do you like public displays of affection, on a scale of 1-10?

Question: 24/33Pick Your Answer!

What is the nicest thing you partner could say to you?
You make every day worth living
You have the biggest heart
You are a great kisser
You are beautiful
You are the one I want to spend my life with

Question: 25/33Pick Your Answer!

How often do you hang out with your friends?
A few times a week
Once a year
Once a week
Once every other month
Once a month

Question: 26/33Pick Your Answer!

What is one thing you look for in a potential partner?
A romantic side
Great conversationalist
Someone with a flexible work schedule
A caring and sweet side
Wealth and success

Question: 27/33Pick Your Answer!

In general, you don’t like it when your partner:
Doesn’t kiss you goodbye
Never gives you any presents
Is always thinking about their work
Criticizes what you do
Doesn't help around the house

Question: 28/33Pick Your Answer!

Something you would do to surprise your partner ...
Take some time out to spend together
Compliment their style or behavior
Cuddle them for hours
Spoil them
Do their least favorite chores

Question: 29/33Pick Your Answer!

If you were to tell your partner one thing, what would it be ....
I feel the most loved when you tell me I'm appreciated.
Your actions speak louder than words to me.
I appreciate when you buy me thoughtful presents.
Eye contact lets me know that you really care.
When you hold my hand, it's the best part of my day.

Question: 30/33Pick Your Answer!

What qualities and behaviors do you value the most in other people?
Thoughtful presents and gifts
Helpfulness and caringness
Affectionate personality and warmth
Conversations and closeness
Praise, positivity and encouragement

Question: 31/33Pick Your Answer!

When you were a child, you felt closest to your parents or siblings when…
They verbally expressed how important I was to them.
They gave me something they knew I would like.
They spoke to me, and we did something fun together.
They did things for me because they knew I'd enjoy them.
They caringly touched or physically held me.

Question: 32/33Pick Your Answer!

To help inspire confidence in another person, do you...
Provide an outlet for them, and listen to their concerns.
Teach them how to improve and get better.
Give them a pat on the back, stating "You can do it!"
Give them a tool or amulet that will help them.
Give them an encouraging high five.

Question: 33/33Pick Your Answer!

Nothing says I love you more than...
Offering your undivided attention to someone.
A thoughtful gift.
Hearing ''I love you."
Feeling someone else embrace you.
A loving act or helping hand.
Women.com | Quiz Facts

Take this 5 Love Languages assessment based on the book by Dr. Chapman to discover your love language and begin improving your relationships. Your love language profile will explain your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to connect to others.

The 5 Love Languages are: 1. Words of affirmation: For those who prefer the words of affirmation language, hearing “I love you” and other compliments are what they value the most. Words hold real value within this language. 2. Quality time: This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention. Unlike the words of affirmation language, talk is cheap and being a loved one’s main focus leaves quality timers feeling satisfied and comforted. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful to these individuals. Being there for them is crucial. 3. Receiving gifts: This doesn’t necessarily mean the person is materialistic, but a meaningful or thoughtful present it was makes them feel appreciated. 4. Acts of service: For these people, actions speak louder than words. People who speak the language of service want their partner to recognize that their life is rough and help them out in any way possible. Lending a helping hand shows you really care. Basically, if you’re not willing to show your appreciation by doing them a favor, you’re saying you don’t value them. 5. Physical touch: To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch. That doesn’t mean only in the bedroom — everyday physical connections, like hand-holding, kissing, or any type of re-affirming physical contact is greatly appreciated. A person who speaks the language of physical touch isn’t necessarily an over-the-top PDA’er, but getting a little touchy-feely does make them feel safe and loved. While each of these Love Languages is unique, remember that at the end of the day, they are all ways to express the love you have of another.

Want to know more about the 5 Love Languages? Well, Dr. Gary Chapman actually has six different editions! According to the official Love Languages website, there are tests for couples, singles, men, military personnel, children, and teens. Each test is different and catered to that specific topic.

Dr. Gary Chapman has a passion for people, and for helping them form authentic, lasting bonds. Did you know? He actually is a well-known marriage counselor, making him the perfect resource for determining these love languages.

Now, if you want more quizzes about love and romance, you can take them here! But for now, take this 5 Love Languages quiz to see which one suits your personality!